Modesty Does Not Mean Frumpy

People are often wary of the term “modesty” because of a fear of looking frumpy.  The world certainly does not help us with this.  It is so difficult to find clothing that covers us correctly and still makes us look becoming.  Plus, even when we find such clothing, some (mostly jealous and judgmental) people will still frown upon it (You wear skirts? What religion do you belong to?).  Those kinds of people we should pay no attention to.  We are dressing for our dignity and to bring others to Christ.

 

 

Concerning tops, I must admit that it is extremely difficult to acquire ones that are both modest and stylish.  Often, I buy a blouse that has a low cut and put a tank top under it.  Or, if it is sleeveless, I will wear a sweater.  The secret is to constantly be looking.  If you hunt hard enough, I promise there are cute tops that are modest and attractive.

 

 

 

Be careful not to go overboard and only wear very loose-fitting and shapeless tops.  Yes, we girls should avoid tight-fitting shirts that accentuate our chests.  But we are women.  We cannot help the way we look.  It is not bad that we look the way we do.  We can wear conforming clothing while not looking risque or frumpy.  Further, we have an obligation to look nice when we are out in the world.  Otherwise, people will not take us seriously in our faith.

I would wear a something underneath this as it is a little lower than I am comfortable with.  But it would still look awfully cute.

Skirts can often be very difficult to find.  However, they are out there.  I know, because I have bought many skirts.  It does help if you have some skill at sewing.  Unfortunately, I am not very good at sewing, but my grandma graciously makes me skirts which are cute and stylish.  If you have no skills whatsoever with sewing, don’t worry!  As I said, there are skirts out there if you hunt hard enough.  Just make sure you do not wear skirts that look like a sack; they certainly should not be tight, but they do need to look nice.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

To finish your outfit, add scarves, belts, cute shoes, jewelry, and other accessories.  Don’t be surprised at the compliments you will receive (“How classy!”) and even derogatory stares and comments.  Life will never be perfect in this world if you are following God’s commandments.